School Holidays and Easter Season for Separated Couples
Yes, it’s that time of year again – school holidays are here, and Easter is just around the corner, and with them comes the annual juggling act for separated families. While the holiday season can be joyful, it can also bring unique challenges when it comes to organising time with your children.
So, how can separated parents make the holiday period smoother – for themselves and, most importantly, for their children?
In family law, parenting arrangements – whether about where children live or how they spend time with each parent – are made in the best interests of the children, not to suit either parent. That means it’s essential to plan ahead and communicate clearly and respectfully with each other.
Understand What Children Need
Children often want to make both parents happy and may dream of their family being together again. They crave stability and emotional safety, and while they may seem fine on the outside, they can be struggling internally.
They may not know how to express their feelings or fears, so it’s up to parents to create a calm, supportive environment.
Avoid Conflict in Front of the Kids
Children need to feel safe and loved by both parents. Arguing or criticising the other parent in their presence can be damaging. It puts them in the middle – and often, they’ll internalise that conflict.
Remember, speaking poorly about the other parent is like speaking poorly about part of your child. Protect their relationship with both parents wherever possible.
Communication is Key
Relationship experts consistently recommend:
- Planning early to reduce last-minute stress;
- Focusing on what your child wants, not just what’s convenient;
- Avoiding putting children in the middle of disputes;
- Agreeing on clear arrangements well in advance.
It’s not always easy, but open and respectful communication can make a huge difference.
When Things Get Tough
Even with the best intentions, difficulties can still arise. That’s where support helps. A relationship counsellor can help you work through emotional or communication challenges, while a family lawyer can explain your legal rights and options if an agreement can’t be reached.
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